The Key to lasting relationship isn't communication-It's Respect


The fall of many marriages or relationships have
been linked to loss of Communication not forgetting the key to many marital problems.

Communication has been heralded as the prime component in making marriage successful,at least to some.For years ,couples have spent hours in bed ,dining tables etc to iron out their issues etc When it doesn't bear any fruit they'd seek to effective way of doing(communication) it,as if that could be the antidote.Communication is very vital in marriage/relationship but not the key in making it successful or long lasting.

Respect is the Key.Respect is what would make a relationship last.Respect should be mutual .It is very true though that when a man shows love for her woman/wife it motivates her respect and when a woman shows respect for her husband it motivates his respect but whatever it is Respect is love and love is respect .It doesn't matter who earns what ,who provides what or who's the boss,respect should be mutual.

It's the foundation of every relationship.Respect may seen hard to define at times but it's present when couples embrace the concepts of acceptance,forgiveness,allowing another to make without judging their motives,listening and appreciating each other's unique personalities.It should be maintained together.Having respect for your partner guides your choice of words and how appropriate you convey them.Your words suppose to bring you two together and not drive two of you apart.

Some times respect becomes hard to maintain when one feels superior ,disregard the other etc.Particularly for men it's not how well she cooks,dress,moves in bed etc but her respect for him.Give your man respect and you'd have his all,Respect your woman respect and she'd go over the moon for you.

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